Friday night and the end of a good week.

Posted on March 6, 2010 at 1:03 am in

Cathy had a full week of work and got there on her own.  She was tired when she got home and took a 1-2 hour nap each evening. We have an incredible time at her birthday celebration on Sunday which I think buoyed us up through the rest of the week.

The weather is changing to spring and that makes all of us happy, dogs included.  We are heading to Sarasota, Florida in 2 weeks for our annual vacation, this time with Erick and Patty again.  (Cathy’s brother and his wife)  This time we’ve spent our wad and have a place right on the beach.  Going to sleep and waking up with the surf sounds in our heads is my idea of heaven on earth.  It’s a bit bittersweet this year, because the Cincinnati Reds have taken their spring training to Arizona.  This means that Erick will have to suffer through the Orioles spring training and spend lots of wind educating his sister and sister-out-law about which players to watch, etc.  He’s an encyclopedia of baseball information and we come away from the games feeling like experts.  Ha, ha, ha!

Let’s not forget March Madness!  I promise to post news pictures this week, so stayed tuned.  Oh—-CONGRATULATIONS TO WASHINGTON, D.C. and all the same sex couples who now can get married.  It’s about time we all took our relationships seriously enough to be responsible for each other.  We can’t wait for Maryland to follow suit.  Watch the headlines so that you know when to expect your invitation.   XO from the Nation’s Capitol.

Cathy’s friends (???)

Posted on February 28, 2010 at 5:44 pm in

Make her cry, and she made us cry. Her birthday/suvivor party at Ruth’s was the best in the world. Big girls/boys do cry.

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The baby bird leaves the nest

Posted on February 24, 2010 at 6:11 pm in

This past week has been really incredible.

Cathy has gotten up at 8 AM, fixed her breakfast and trotted off to work, all on her own.  The house has been unnaturally quiet and the dogs and I find ourselves napping quite a bit until Cathy comes home from work.  Then she takes a nap for about 2 hours.  She’s even eating full meals at dinner.

Our day-to-day life is getting back into it’s previous habits.

However, it will never be the same.  Our perspectives have been altered.  Our priorities sharpened and our lives, more focused.  The challenges now are how to take these new lessons we’ve been given and to incorporate them into a world view that brings us more joy and meaning.  We have come to take nothing and no one for granted anymore.  It’s scary and liberating at the same time.

Cathy and I can’t even begin to articulate what your support has meant to us along this journey’s path.  My hope is that you all have come away with a new sense, too, about life and what is important.  The kind gesture, encouraging comments and spirit of your love has enveloped us at the precise time when we needed it the most.  We are eternally grateful for each and every one of you.

As Cathy continues to heal and gain strength, perhaps the messages on this blog aren’t as urgent.  Some people have expressed regret that Cathy’s wholeness will mean the end of it.  BUT! We don’t have to wind it down or leave it behind.  We can continue on with it.  As administrator, I can change some of the features and the design of the graphics.  As long as you all are willing to participate, this blog can morph into whatever it will be.  I propose keeping it going.  What do you all think?

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Night out

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 3:16 pm in

Yesterday we went to see a movie, and out for sushi…our first big night out since forever! And, I drank a beer, first since the tonsilectomy. Real life coming back!

One more for the road

Posted on February 20, 2010 at 3:07 pm in

I went to work all the days the Gallery was open this week, for about four-hour days. It was alright, not too exhausting. So, the blog is probably winding down…On March 9 I get a pet scan to see whether the cancer is gone; it gets read and interpreted for me a week later. So I’ll post the results, hoping for the luck of the Irish, on St. Patty’s day.

This could really be historic.

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 6:31 pm in

It keeps snowing and snowing. I can very happily use the “free” hours at work, since the government is closed, and there is plenty of time for napping while its white outside. The doggies thought they wanted to go for a walk, but soon decided a SHORT walk was plenty!

Can we go in, please?

going under

“Historic” snowfall

Posted on February 8, 2010 at 5:36 pm in

That’s what they call it when it lands on DC. Here are some snaps of what it looks like:

It is beautiful, and there is plenty of time to enjoy it because the Government is closed. So, we are snuggled in and healing.

I did it!

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 9:42 pm in

Beth drove me down to the National Gallery today for a four-hour stint. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be…in fact, it was a little anti-climatic. I’ve been through so much, enormous changes, and the workplace seems like a very smooth,unruffled pond that didn’t change at all, except for the construction and plywood everywhere. Both reassuring and unsettling, the sense of time warp. The good news is that my energy held up just fine. Now tomorrow is predicted to have “historic” snowfall, so we are in a perfect situation to stay in, plant starts for our garden, and watch the fire burning in the fireplace.

Not quite ready

Posted on February 2, 2010 at 7:19 pm in

I had though I would go downtown for a 4-hour workday today, but yesterday I was really not very well, with lots of dizzy spells and many naps. So, today I worked at home again. I’ll try to get to the National Gallery on Thursday. I got a call from a fellow-customer at Johns Hopkins, who had just gotten the all-clear from his PET scan! really wonderful to hear!

getting better, all the time

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 7:47 pm in

I was looking at back entries and  that helped me realize the progress that I’ve seen. For example, my mouth sores have gotten small and fairly insignificant…I don’t need Lidocaine mouthwash to eat anymore. This morning, for the first time since the end of treatments, I woke up feeling a bit of energy! So, spring is on its way, I’m sure of it now. And I think maybe we’ll put some seeds in to sprout. hooray, hope!

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